Perhaps, you have the feeling that you are not as loved as you should be. If so, consider the possibility that you could become more loveable. Your gift as a thinking human is your ability to become what you wish to be. Consider what other humans have discovered, taught and replicated and what can be learned in the future.
Someday, after we have mastered the winds, the waves, the tides and gravity, we shall harness for God the energies of love. Then, for the second time in the history of the world, man will have discovered fire - Pierre Teilhard de Chardin.
Creation
Imagine that thrilling moment in history when the relationship between fire and mankind was first kindled. A tiny spark of a glowing ember was protected by human hands; it was nourished with tinder and sustained by the breath of a living being. The action was purposeful, patient and loving. In that inception, nothing was asked of the fire; everything was a gift. Under watchful caring and attentiveness, the fire grew and then it shared its gifts of warmth, protection and food preparation. Had this been a onetime occurrence, it would have been forgotten, but humans were not destined to forget. The fire making formula had been discovered and could be duplicated. Becoming loveable is like building a fire: it requires knowledge, patience, and selfless devotion.
Power to Change
Perhaps, you have heard it said that it is not all about you. I realize that this comment is aimed at people who are self absorbed or even narcissistic. However, ultimately the only person you can change is yourself; I urge you to mentally challenge this statement. Further, I assert transformation can only be created through the process of altering your thoughts. The power to change your thoughts is available to you in each and every second, thus, you have the authority to become more loveable right now.
Every Garden Needs a Gardener
You can cultivate your inner world to be a garden of love. If you plant love, nurture love, and radiate light and energy upon on it – love will grow in the garden of your mind. Thoughts are the seeds you plant; thoughts nourish, sustain, protect and grow love. The fruits of your labors will irresistibly attract others. Think affirming thoughts to cultivate the soils of your soul.
Affirming Thoughts
- Love is meant to heal
- Love is meant to renew
- Love is meant to make us safe
- Love is meant to inspire us with power
- Love is meant to make us certain without doubt
- Love is meant to oust all fear
- Love is meant to unveil immortality
- Love is meant to bring peace
- Love is meant to harmonize differences, it has no need to be right
The completely loveable woman has become a magical fire maker and the keeper of a sacred garden. She has learned to love herself and others. She can control and guide her thoughts in positive directions and learn from her mistakes. She is aware that she is a fully integrated spiritual being with the strength, courage and wisdom to relinquish the need to be right. To her, life is about affirming, not defeating others. I am not so naïve as to suggest that such a woman will be cherished, loved and respected by everyone. Sadly, even in the midst of luscious, delicious, healthy, life affirming fruits and vegetables not all will wish to partake, but a completely loveable woman will always be completely loved by someone.
Read more at Suite101: What Women Should Know about Mans Archetypical Self;
Woman's Intuition: Connecting to Your Inner Intelligence
Sources:
Dr. Dyer,Wayne W., Real Magic: Creating Miracles in Everyday Life, New York, Harper, 1992
Chopra, Deepak, MD., The Path to Love, New York, Harmony Books, 1993
Lance Morton - Lance Morton is a writer, hypnotists, personal fitness trainer, and the author of Mentally Create your Ideal Weight.
